I'm in California and the first Passover seder is tonight. I do not feel well. This is the third year that I haven't felt well for the seder and I'm beginning to think that I just don't travel all that well. I don't think it has anything to do with the fact that this is the first holiday without my grandmother. I feel like she's still here. That could be me being delusional, but I don't care.
As organized as MomGiraffe is, everything is still really crazy the day of the seder. There are a lot of things you can't do ahead of time. As always, though, I am sure the night will be freilich.